Attitude is EVERYTHING!
Age is just a number! And Attitude is the universal topic that every person talks about, but no one dives deep! Yes, I am focusing on Positive Attitude! In-Depth!
Everything begins with a problem. Ups and Downs are part of life. Sometimes we fall but we fall to rise. Life teaches you the best. Isn’t that is an adventure? It always feels good when we accomplish a difficult task.
My story: Since my childhood, I had always been thinking that my life is an adventure. I used to feel thrilled in life. These were small adventures, of course, like in schools, college, home, career, etc. I remember I had not left any competition in my school or college to take part in! And I Failed sometimes and I Won too. One thing never changed I kept trying.
Being human we tend to make mistakes, we fall at many points but we always rise. Do not give up find a SOLUTION! There is always a workaround. Life is full of never-ending issues and running away is not a solution. Today or tomorrow we have to face the bitter truth of life. Until you do not face the issue it is impossible to know the depth. Carrying a positive attitude throughout life will make you're surrounding a better place where you will always find a proper solution to any problem.
That is real life. There is no growth without any problem.
For example, you hate finance, but if you are an entrepreneur, then you will have to learn a bit since you cannot stop just because you got stuck. Make it a small challenge and feel the thrill.
You will stop being scared if you are not afraid to learn.
What is the right meaning of Positive Attitude?
Many say that a Positive attitude means you are happy within. Let’s understand this concept. If people are so glad doing nothing, then is it the right Attitude or a wrong attitude. I mean a lazy person who does not work. Here, wasting TIME is the Right Attitude? Actually, there should be a reason behind your happiness. For example, you have a project or assignment to do. You put your effort into finishing it. And you feel happy once it is finished. How about this? This is the right Attitude.
So, in simple words, a positive attitude is when you are happy for your efforts.
Remember,
A positive attitude is NOT centering on the result.
I know you would be thinking, what I am saying. Let’s be clear! Many people commit suicide. Why? Because of the failure. Why does it happen? Because our society has taught us to run behind the result. And we keep reminding ourselves that I will PASS! I will PASS! Even in case, we say “what if we fail.” Then again, the people around us keep saying do not think negative. You will Pass! And creates those combat environments that create much more pressure. Is it really a positive attitude or foolishness? We feel like this so strongly that we start believing it. But what if we fail? There are tons of people participating. You might not pass now, but maybe next time. Life doesn’t end here.
The stronger we believe, the more our heartbreaks.
That is why a positive attitude is not going towards foolishness. A positive attitude is never giving up, being happy for all your efforts, & keep learning!
Self-Improvement is the Best Attitude
Too much expectation creates a strong sense of fear of failure! Think! If your expectation is 0, but the effort is 100%. What is your chance to win? You will see yourself at height. For this, self-improvement is a must because learning is the key to mortality. Try to become better every single day! Compare yourself with your previous self. Do not compare with others. Every single being is different, so make your own way.
With the learning anyone can do anything, You just need to believe it!
Albert Einstein said, ‘Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving’. The similar way “Learning is like handling, you must keep it the right way!”
This is why Attitude matters!
Thank you for reading all the way down. I hope you have learned something today. With this, I would like to wish you a happy life ahead. :)
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